Sajini Chandrasekera

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How you define love ?

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At the very thought of Love we picture a fairy tale like we use to hear in books when we were kids . But is Love perfect all the time i wonder ....Love is a magic between two loving hearts bonded with spiritual feelings . Love is deep understanding of each other and some times a silent sacrifice. Love never comes easy , it's hard work between two individuals who want their relationship to work . Love is a struggle to over come battles and facing challengers but what's most important is in love you do it with the person you Love and together the power of facing obstacles are powerful . Even the most successful relationships have hardest moments and some times it makes you weak but love is about hanging on and not letting go . Hanging on to a person you loved all your life , a person who made you smile and the person who stood with you are all hardships of life .

No Love is never perfect or will be perfect .....Love is a bond between two different people with different life styles , different thinking and different up bringing but what matters most is despise their differences they have become to accept each other and respect their differences , but even in great relationships Love has not always played a great part but the people involve in it had made it work together as a team .

Don't expect your Love story to be a fairy tale ....It will have lot of hurdles and sacrifices mixed with tears and hurt and pain , but what's important is to be together and win the greatest joy in life . Every second , every minute , every day you want to be with your loved one and this journey together makes you happy and complete . Having rough times during your relationship is healthy as they make you spill out every pain and hurt you feel and give a chance to the other to understand you better.It will give you time to think of your self and your partner and to make things right for both of you .

Love can never be defined by any person as it varies to different individual but the deep feeling of love is same to all ages despise the gender . Love can be made perfect only with the feeling you have for one another . Love is a combination of hurt , joy , happiness and vulnerability and Love empower another to hurt you but still its beautiful feeling in heart . Part of growing up is realizing that Love in not perfect and it has it's cores . We all make mistakes in Love and they hurt as more when it comes from people love the most . To have a healthy relationship you must be able to understand that Love is not perfect and forgiveness always plays a major role .

LOVE is really beautiful and Love is real. And it’s what makes this life so beautiful.

But, why is love fading with marriage ? Divorces are becoming very popular these days and it seems every marriage is silently blazing with it's own problems . Should Love fail when obstacles come on the way ? Should we give up on Love when the going gets tough ?

But what is Love in the first place ?

posted by Sajini Lakshika Chandrasekera @ 11:00 AM,

10 Comments:

At September 6, 2012 at 11:06 AM, Anonymous Doll said...

Love is just love, stop defining it (and misusing the noble spirit in the process). Everyone has their own definition. It happens. Best is when it happens between two people whose “intellectual chemistry matches.” And when it does happen between two who have similar chemistry, then there is no turning back or fading. If it fads with time, there was no love in the first place.

 
At September 6, 2012 at 2:36 PM, Anonymous Power Angel said...

Love based on attraction have very short life and i also think that with time feelings change and you take things for granted . All together no one can give or say actually what love is .

 
At September 6, 2012 at 2:41 PM, Blogger Sajini Chandrasekera said...

@ Doll.....
Thank you for your comment and i do agree that best is when two people who you call soul mates create love . Some people do have a good chemistry and they are good in keeping up a good relation ..Yes , finding a definition for love it hard and at hard moments if some one is giving up there was love at all just attraction .

 
At September 6, 2012 at 2:44 PM, Blogger Sajini Chandrasekera said...

@ Power Angel ....
Thank you for your comment and i do agree with you that love is not attraction . Love is different to each individual and how they feel and what they expect . Love is feeling that words are still unable to explain .

 
At September 7, 2012 at 5:43 PM, Anonymous Masha W. said...

Love is when you put someone else's needs and wants before yours. Plain and simple. Sleepless nights and the excitement belongs to chemicals in the brain. And we combine both and call it love.

 
At September 8, 2012 at 9:33 AM, Anonymous Kausar Bilal said...

A very interesting article explaining the love realities. I believe true love is only spiritual which includes physical attraction as well.In other words,it is a soul mate chemistry begins with physical attraction and manifests itself through intellectual chemistry. But it is just the beginning of the journey. Love life starts when we have to deal with our differences at all levels. And, becomes successful when we are ready accept each other along with our personal flaws and when we are prepared to compromise and sacrifice. True love,in fact nurtures us intellectually,emotionally, spiritually and physically and allow us to deal with our individual dilemmas,conflicts and deficiencies. As a result we grow together and personally as well.

 
At September 9, 2012 at 9:57 AM, Blogger Sajini Chandrasekera said...

@ Masha W.....
Thank you for your comment and yes i agree . Love is when you see the whole world in different prospect . But some times when you put other's need before you at one time that person may get use to it and take your love for granted . Love is a team work and both equally should work together to archive a happy relationship .

 
At September 9, 2012 at 10:04 AM, Blogger Sajini Chandrasekera said...

@ Kausar Bilal....
Thank you for your lovely comment and i fully agree with every thing you say . What matters most is that you should be able to continue that love till the end of time . Most people go to extremes in love in the beginning and become the perfect couple , but with time they loose interest in each other and the fire between them fades away . Love is sharing all secrets , experience , pain and joy together .
Love is a beautiful and it don't come easy . It's hard work but the end result gives you a life time happiness...

 
At September 9, 2012 at 10:58 AM, Blogger Deb Sistrunk said...

You make a strong case for love. :-) "Part of growing up is realizing that Love in not perfect...." So true! Excellent post.

 
At September 9, 2012 at 11:01 AM, Blogger Sajini Chandrasekera said...

@ Deb Sistrunk ....
Thank you so much for your comment and yes , with time we realize that love is not a bed of roses but has it's own thorns ...

 

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