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My guest post Distant love appeared on Light Within.

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posted by Sajini Lakshika Chandrasekera @ 2:11 PM,

12 Comments:

At July 27, 2012 at 4:15 PM, Blogger Durrani said...

Bring it here, why there?

 
At July 27, 2012 at 4:17 PM, Blogger Sajini Chandrasekera said...

@ Durrani....

I wanted all my posts which was in Light Within here as well...but the purpose of this post here is to built a conversation to my next article ...Thank you for dropping by

 
At July 27, 2012 at 4:29 PM, Anonymous Power Angel said...

Full read the article. I never use to beleive this online love particularly work and i thought it was just a time pass for people during the day until i met two people who were involved .Though physically they were apart they have a strong connection between them . And as you say these kind of relation can work and needed a little hard work and the end it's worth the effort. A very good post ...

 
At July 27, 2012 at 4:32 PM, Anonymous Rubi - India said...

There's no such thing as online love or cyber love . Its' a time pass for men who have nothing to do and to sex meniaches...

 
At July 27, 2012 at 4:37 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Distance relationships work but not this online love . It's shit

 
At July 27, 2012 at 4:51 PM, Anonymous Ahamed Rizvi said...

I fully agree with you . About 2 years ago through Facebook i found a girl who don't belong to my relegion , my nationlity or to my country . She was from Thailand while i was from Egypt. I'm a muslim and she a buddhist . We were good friends first and shared mutual interest . After sometime we fell in love and never it bothered us that we belong to different countries. She was my every thing . My strength, my courage , my motivation and beyond. We spent lot of time in skype and were crazy for each other . And we both wanted to tell our parents and get married , so we did . But unfortunatley her parents came against us because i'm a muslim and she a buddhist. So after spending nearly 2 years as online lovers we had to seperate to make her parents happy. I have no connections with her now and she left cyber and was never seen . That love she gave me will make me go on for rest of my life. I still love her . I have never met her in real life but what i felt for her and with her can never be shared by another woman.
Online love exist and it's different . As you say it's hard work but it exist and it's beautiful.

 
At July 27, 2012 at 5:00 PM, Blogger Sajini Chandrasekera said...

@ Power Angel...
Thank you for your words . What i see in this online love is this connection is between 2 different people in different countries , different nations , different religion and every about them is different but despite of them all they fall in love . If a online love can keep on flourishing then it is kind of love that should be kept . Most of us don't believe it exist but people who are in this kind of situation know its there and some of them end in marriage .

 
At July 27, 2012 at 5:19 PM, Blogger Sajini Chandrasekera said...

@ Rubi - India.....
Thank for your comment. Well i think it's the different experience online make us judge and come to conclusions . So many people fall in love online nowadays and you'll be stunt by the numbers but the issue is how to stay in a distant/online love .
To a extent i agree with you that every man/woman is not honest online . You have little information regarding that person behind the computer and there are so many possibilities of cheating online and as you say sex creeps also exist and take young girls or even older women under their wings.

 
At July 27, 2012 at 5:24 PM, Blogger Sajini Chandrasekera said...

@ Anonymous....
There is a difference between online love and distance relationships . Online is about love of two different people who belong to entirely different countries and cultures and who have never met. But most distance relationships are among two lovers who have met and due to work or studies they are apart but visits at least a once a year.
If looked closely we do find online lovers end in marriage and in my original post i have a comment which she had married her online love . So we can't entirely say it don't exist ..it do , but working on such relationships are much difficult.

 
At July 27, 2012 at 5:39 PM, Blogger Sajini Chandrasekera said...

@ Ahamed Rizvi....
Thank you so much for sharing your story here . You have proved my story that online love exist. I can feel your pain of loosing the woman you loved for 2 years and your last words touched me deeply '' That love she gave me is enough to go on with rest of my life ''
Just wish things were different for you and parents were more understanding. Religion , race , nationality or skin clour has nothing to do with love . Love is a deep feeling of understanding and caring and respect and other aspects are nothing in front of this .

 
At July 27, 2012 at 8:40 PM, Anonymous Sushil said...

Again a wonderful post by my beautiful blogger. This post is about how to keep a distant relation alive but the topic or else the comments are mostly about online love. I agree that online love is different and beautiful but what important is not falling in love online but to keep that relation strong and going. Weather its online or distant its all about relationships and it takes a strong love and deep understanding and trust to keep any relation alive.

 
At July 28, 2012 at 12:26 PM, Blogger Sajini Chandrasekera said...

@ Sushil.....
Thank you for your comment. Yes as you say my article is about how to keep a distance relation healthy and happy but mostly the comments are about online love which is also a kind of distant love. Either way the importance as you say is not about falling in love with a person miles away but maintaing that love till end .

 

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